Health and Habit Building Journey - My 180-Day Challenge Recap & How I Built Habits that Changed My Life

Embarking on a Transformational Health Journey

In a world filled with quick fixes and fad diets, I decided to take a different route – a 180-day health journey. My goal was simple: to transform my lifestyle, embrace healthier habits, and witness natural and sustainable weight loss - no crazy diets or shortcuts – just good vibes and a chill approach to getting healthier. Ready for the deets on my journey to natural and healthy weight loss? Let's spill the tea- insights, triumphs, and challenges!

Flossing Fanatic - Building Consistent Habits

Okay, real talk. I started this whole thing by trying to floss regularly. Who knew it would be such a game-changer? My gums used to stage a mini-war every time (bleeding every time), but now, thanks to Cocofloss, flossing has become a joy rather than a chore. Lesson learned: tiny habits can be the real MVPs in the health game.

When did I feel like it became a habit? 90 days into my 180-day challenge

Difficulty level: Medium 

Mastering Focus - Unplugging for Productivity

I always heard others speak about how much they accomplished when they focused on one task at a time. So I wanted to try it out for myself to see what the hype was all about. An hour of uninterrupted concentration seemed daunting at first, but girl, it works wonders! For 2024, my plan is to keep the Zen vibes rolling by putting my devices on silent for longer. Let me tell you, it's a game-changer in the productivity department but also contributes to a more fulfilling and accomplished day.

When did I feel like it became a habit? 45 days into my 180-day challenge

Difficulty level: Medium/ Hard 

The Power of Face Workouts - Sculpting Change Over Time

Facial exercises were something I practiced occasionally before the challenge but I wasn’t seeing the results I truly wanted. It only takes 5 minutes a day but it took patience – a good 2-3 months – to notice significant changes. The results were worth it!  As I continue to explore innovative ways to make face workouts more accessible, I'm on a mission to find ways to make this face workout thing easier – who doesn't want a sculpted glow-up without breaking a sweat? The transformative impact of face exercises on physical appearance has greatly affected my self-confidence.

When did I feel like it became a habit? 30 days into my 180-day challenge 

Difficulty level: Easy (because I already practiced this regularly before the challenge)  

Embracing Body Movement - Strength, Both Physical and Mental

Forget boring workouts; the key is finding a workout you ENJOY! Otherwise, you aren't going to do it! To be honest with you, it took me roughly 8 months to enjoy waking up early to head to the gym. Now I wake up with my clothes set out the night before and look forward to my workouts. 

What’s the secret? It’s setting small goals like “just make it to the gym”, or “work out for 10 minutes”. Once you accomplish small goals, you can set bigger ones that don’t feel as daunting. 

I saw the best physical results through a combination of weight training, cardio, and pilates (but find what works for you). I highly suggest finding a friend to show you the ropes until you become comfortable by yourself. 

My biggest motivation came 3 months into the challenge when my clothes started looking and feeling better. Be patient with yourself! Mental perks are real, and I'm not just physically stronger – I'm feeling fierce. It's more than a workout; it's a mood booster!

When did I feel like it became a habit? 30 days into my 180-day challenge 

Difficulty level: Medium (I was already active before the challenge but it took me roughly 8 months to want to go to the gym)

The Culinary Challenge - The Struggle is Real

Confession time: I'm a foodie, and eating healthy is my kryptonite. But hold up, meal prepping, and tracking saved the day. These practices not only facilitated weight loss but also heightened my awareness of nutritional choices. My weight and fat started shedding once I implemented a healthier diet. This was the biggest and most rewarding part of the challenge. I never stopped eating my favorite foods. I ate a high-protein diet and ate smaller portions of the “unhealthy” foods I didn’t want to give up.

It's a constant struggle, but I'm committed to leveling up my healthy eating game. Let's keep it real – pasta cravings are a thing, but so is self-love.

When did I feel like it became a habit? 160 days into my 180-day challenge

Difficulty level: Hard 

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Cheers to Glow-Ups and New Goals!

Wrapping up my 180-day rollercoaster, I've dropped around 13 lbs and 11.9 inches – cue the confetti! It's not just about looking different; it's a whole vibe change (incredible confidence boost). Let's celebrate the wins, the lessons, and the ongoing journey. Here's to embracing the glow-up, a renewed mindset, and inspiring others to jump on the health train. You can do this, bestie!

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity 

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10 Exciting Ways to Celebrate Galentine's Day

“What the world needs now, is love”. - Jackie DeShannon 

With Galentine’s Day right around the corner, we all have that girlfriend who deserves all the love. Whether she's happily married, single and searching, or could care less about this holiday, at times like this when we are far from loved ones, I think it is more important than ever to spread love. 

I’m sharing 5 ideas on how to celebrate Galentine’s Day with your best girlfriends below. Make sure to head over to Happily Ever Style to check out the remaining 5 ideas!  

Tarot Readings

With many of us wondering about our futures, a virtual tarot card reading might be a fun way to gain insight on any lingering question you and your friends may have on love, career, or family. These two tarot reading websites are completely free and share the significance of each card you pull. Hop on a Zoom call and share your screen with your girlfriends. Then take turns reading your possible futures out loud. Feel free to do this on your own as well! 

Do tarot card reading virtually in the links below:

Make Dinner Together

Have you ever sent your friend a link to a recipe telling them to try it? Do you feel like it's more fun to cook for two? Well if you answered yes to any of those questions, making dinner together via FaceTime or Zoom with your girlfriend is the perfect way to celebrate Galentine's Day! Take a look on Pinterest and find a recipe that both of you want to try. Grab all the groceries you need and set a time to start making dinner together. While you're chopping up onions and sauteing the ingredients, you can have a good conversation with your friend. Once the meal is prepped, light some candles and maybe even grab a glass of wine then have dinner together.

Take a Mood-Boosting 305 Virtual Workout Class

Ready to lift your mood up and while burning calories?! Well, you have got to try out a fun 305 Fitness workout class! You don’t need any equipment at all-just bring the good vibes and a friend! You will have the chance to dance it out while working on that booty. I’ve been a huge fan of 305 Fitness for over three years now and I leave every class feeling more confident than when I started the class!

They are hosting classes virtually and you can book them below:

FaceTime Photoshoot

So let’s be honest, it's hard to get comfortable in front of the camera. Sometimes having a cheerleader is the best way to get the money shot. So why not get on FaceTime with your best girlfriend and have a fun photoshoot? You two can both help find inspiration for each other through Pinterest, put on some makeup, do your hair, and even put on a fun outfit. Take turns being the photographer while giving your best friend some direction. Every time you see a good shot of her, make sure to screenshot. Once you have the shots done, text them over to each other and use some of the following editing apps that I love. Have a fun photoshoot! 

Lightleap | Snapseed | Color story | Photofox

Watch your favorite High School Chick Flicks

I don't know about you but the chick flicks back when I was in high school were so much better than they are today! I'm talking ‘Mean Girls’, ‘13 Going on 30’, and ‘How to Lose A Guy in 10 Days’. Now I'm a 90s baby so your chick flick favorites may be different than mine but watching them with your best girlfriend is a fun way to celebrate Galentine's Day. Take some time to make a list of Rom-Coms that you both really loved during high school and have a retro night. Grab some popcorn, your favorite snacks, and cozy up on the couch. Get ready to flashback to high school! 

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity 

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

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12 Ways to Celebrate New Years Eve Indoors

I think we can all agree on one statement, 2020 has been quite a year! I personally started off 2020 very motivated- planner ready, motivational quotes on hand, and a list of goals to accomplish. While I can’t say that I was able to check all of my goals off, I am ready to find a way to celebrate 2020. It’s important to recognize your wins and reward yourself. Many of us won’t be celebrating in the same way we did in the past so I’m sharing a few ways to party indoors, safely. 

Once you read the six ideas listed below, head over to my friend Tricia’s blog ‘Happily Ever Style’ to see the remaining six ideas! Let me know how you decide to bring in 2021!

1.Game Night 

I am sure you have played a lot of games this year, but why not end this year off on a really fun note?! Pick one game or a few of your ultimate favorites and have a marathon.

Not only do games make you laugh but they are also a great way to build stronger bonds with friends and family. Pictionary with a side of prosecco and popcorn anyone?!

2. Cocktail Making & Drinking Games - via Air BnB

Yes, New Year's eve is known for champagne but why not get creative and learn how to craft a cocktail virtually via Air BnB?! It’s something that you will also put to good use in 2021. Trust me, I finally learned the correct (and cool) way to open up a shaker like a real bartender after taking a class. Pick your liquor of choice and get ready for some fun! See some classes below that are under $30 per person

1. Mezcal & Tequila Cocktail Masterclass

2. Holiday Cocktails at Home

3. Hands-On Cocktail Class

3. Sex and The City Marathon 

Have you seen all of the New Years Eve episodes from Sex and the City?

Well, if you haven’t, this may be the perfect time. Better yet, just have a marathon. But make it a true Sex and the City vibe by throwing on your best Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, or Miranda outfit and have a few cosmos as well! Sex and the City maybe 22 years old but the shows are still 100% relatable. 

4. Pajama Party 

When was the last time you threw a pajama party? Probably back in high school right? Let’s take it back and throw a PJ party. The dress code will be your coziest pajamas and slippers Make sure to get all your favorite snacks too- every kind of chip, Sour Patch Kids, cookies, ice cream, and everything else you desire. No pajama party is complete without a pillow fight and maybe a round of truth-and-dare. 

5. “Travel” to another country

This year, many of us haven't had the opportunity to travel. However, that does not mean we can’t get a little creative! Pick a country you were hoping to travel to and create an atmosphere to resemble that country. If you’re feeling spontaneous, close your eyes and point to a place on a map. Make a playlist with that country's traditional music. Cook a traditional dish- maybe paella from Spain, or pad Thai from Thailand? Set your tv screen to a scenic shot from the country- may be the Eiffel Tower or the beautiful beaches of Bali? Fill the room with the scent by buying a candle that smells like the country’s flower.

6. Create a vision board for 2021 and write a letter to yourself

I think setting intentions and having goals are tools for being successful. Take a minute to write a love letter to yourself about how you felt about this year, the emotions you went through, the changes you experienced, and the things you learned. Make sure you also write down any goals that you have for the following year. Then let's get a little crafty. Search through old magazines or newspapers and cut out anything that you find motivating and words you relate to. Glue them down on a piece of paper and refer back to it when you need motivation in 2021.

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity 

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

7 Tips To Know When Buying An Apartment In New York

Part 1: What you need to know before looking for an apartment 

If you asked me five years ago if I was planning to purchase an apartment in New York, I would have laughed in your face. The idea always seemed so unattainable and only for the “rich”. But a few years ago, I began thinking about what it would be like. New York has always felt like home to me and I wanted to make it official. Trust me, I am not rich and I am here to tell you that it is possible!

There are several reasons I wanted to purchase an apartment in New York. Them being: 

1. I knew it would be a good investment (in 10 years, the apartment I purchased had doubled in value) 

2. Ultimately it would be cheaper than paying rent every month. Yes, paying a mortgage with maintenance can be cheaper than paying rent! Crazy right? 

3. I knew I wasn’t planning on moving out of New York anytime soon. 

I knew I wanted an apartment BUT I did not know where to begin, especially because this was my first home purchase ever. It was very overwhelming! I had so many questions like “So what does it take to own an apartment?, what should I know about before looking?, what is a good interest rate for a loan? where do I even get a loan?”. Let’s just say that I learned a lot in this process and did a lot of googling. 

In this blog post I’m going to be 100% honest and share all the things I wish I knew before purchasing a co-op apartment in New York. I am hoping that this can be a good guide for you whether you are considering the idea of purchasing a co-op in New York OR if you are in the process of buying. 

First things first, here is a list of things you need to know before even beginning your search.

1.Figure out where you want to live

You need to know what area you want to live in. What borough in New York and even within that, the exact neighborhood. You can look in a couple of areas, but the more specific you are, the easier your search will be. 

Once you have narrowed down the neighborhood, casually take a look on Streeteasy and check out the price range. This will give you a realistic idea about what neighborhoods are in your price range. Also, keep an eye out for maintenance fees (this is a monthly fee that covers operating expenses, property taxes, etc. that will be needed to pay on top of a mortgage) and the percent you need to put down. In New York, most apartment purchases require a down payment of 10%- 30% (most being 20%). 

Just as an overview idea, I have created a table below to show how much a down payment would be for the following prices. 

2. Get to know your credit score

If you are considering getting a loan, your credit score is pretty important. Also, collect the value of all of your other assets (401k, Roth IRA, stocks, etc.). When applying for a mortgage, this total sum of your worth matters and is required to give. So do the pre-work and have this information ready. 

3. Take a look at your savings and liquid funds & save funds for a down payment

Do you have enough for a down payment? How much more do you need for the payment? Will you have the extra funds needed within the next 3-6 months for closing? One thing I learned was that you don’t need to be 100% there at the time of getting a pre-approval. But you do need to be about 90% there. I spent a lot of time-saving every penny to be able to make my down payment goal. It’s not easy but you get used to asking yourself “do I need this?” and saying no.

You must have liquid cash! What does this mean? The money that you put as a down payment (most likely 20% of the value) must be liquid at the time when you put the offer in. I always thought that it was better to have your savings in a 401k or Roth account. Well, when you are looking to purchase a home, it is equally as important to have liquid funds. However, you can withdraw from your retirement accounts by paying a penalty fee. 

4. Find a realtor

This one is super important! If you don’t have a good realtor, your experience will not go well. This person has to understand what you are looking for, have patience, know about the areas you are interested in, be honest, and reliable. I found my realtor through Streeteasy. You can find realtors through word of mouth, Streeteasy, Zillow, or other listing sites. Throughout my apartment search, I saw my realtor more often than I saw my friends. Your realtor should also have a good relationship with others in the industry and be able to give you recommendations on lawyers, mortgage advisors, contractors. You will need to hire other professionals in this process so references will be helpful. It is not necessary to go through their recommendation but it is a nice place to start when researching. 

5. Get pre-approved for a home loan

Every realtor you speak with will ask you this question- “are you pre-approved?”. This is something you must-do if you are looking to get a mortgage from a bank. If you are not pre-approved, you will need to work on getting approved first before moving forward. If you are approved, your apartment hunt can continue and you will have a better idea of your financial capabilities. Most lenders can only lock in a rate for 90 days (some can for 120 days). This means you will have to close on a property before the rate expires. For many people that is not enough time to find a home you love. This is perfectly okay! Getting pre-approved does not mean that you are locking a rate in- it is more to know how much you can borrow from a lender. However, you may need to do another pre-approval/ credit check once you find a property after the date expires. 

You will need the following information to get pre-approved

1. Assets information

2. DTI- debt to income ratio percentage of gross monthly income that goes toward debt payments, including credit cards, student loans, and car loans. Banks prefer the rate to be below 36%. See a calculator here to calculate your DTI. The lender will calculate this as well.

3. Credit score- most lenders will do a credit check. You have a 30-day window to get several credit checks without it hurting your credit score. 

4. SHOP AROUND for the best mortgage rate- the biggest thing I learned! During these 30 days, shop around with several different lenders to get the lowest interest rate! You can even tell lenders what your best rate has been to see if they can match it. 

6. Build a solid budget for a home

So how much money should you save up/ have saved up to own a co-op in New York?

Honestly, a lot but remember you are investing. This chart shows a rough financial idea of how much a down payment can be. A better estimate can be provided on the property listing once you put in your interest rate. 

This can range based on the co-op itself. Note that the chart only goes to $999k (under 1 million). In NYC, there is a million-dollar mansion tax (a one-time sales tax on home sales of $1 million or more in New York state). 

7. View apartments

Now to the actual search! I would begin by looking online on websites like Streeteasy and Zillow. If you see a property you like, save it and send it to your realtor. He/ or she can reach out to the realtor of that property and schedule a viewing. I highly recommend going it through it this way instead of messaging the listing directly. It will prevent any confusion and you will be taken more seriously. I recommend going to open houses during the weekends and see as many properties as you can. The more you see apartments in person, the better idea you will have of what you like and do not.

Check back for part II of this post!

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity 

A Good First....Date

The past year, I have slowly started dating again. It is scary to put yourself out there to possibly get hurt again. Being vulnerable is not easy, but without risking your vulnerability, you may never find love.

“Love is taking the first step, even when you don’t see the whole staircase.”

— Modern Love , Amazon Series

In today’s society, especially here in New York City, dating is another beast! One would assume, that since there are so many people living here that it would be easy to find love. Well, wrong!! SO wrong! There are millions of people in New York, making the options endless. It’s kind of like going grocery shopping while you're hungry...you want it all and nothing satisfies the craving. People are always on the search with the thought that there is something better, which sometimes makes you miss out on something good.

But that downside also has a positive side to it. With there being so many options, you don’t need to know exactly what you want yet. That’s what dating is for. By dating and meeting new people, you can slowly begin to find characteristics or values that align with yours. Another bonus is that you get to try a ton of new restaurants, coffee shops, bars, and experiences. Some of my favorite places in New York have been found from going on dates.

I worked with Grace Lee from A Good First Date to help me get back out there. Grace has ten years of dating experience and is using her knowledge as a professional matchmaker. She helped me refine my online dating profiles, focus on what my true needs were, and how to weed through options. 

A Good First...Swipe

So what makes a good swipe? For many of us, our natural first impression is based on looks. Yes, this is an important factor but if you are looking for a meaningful connection you might want to look for a little more. Think of three things that are important to you. They could be any of the following examples (doesn’t matter what it is) and try not to deviate from them when swiping.

Height, age, education, job, religion, smoking, drinking, or drug use, looking for a relationship

The list goes on and on. Go through a full profile and find something that you have in common to discuss over messages. If you can’t find one, it’s probably not going to work out so don’t waste your time. If you are looking for something meaningful, good looks aren’t going to be enough.

A Good First...Conversation

You’ve matched! Now what? Having a solid conversation before meeting up is key! There has to be enough interest on both sides to want to actually meet up. Grace’s advice during messaging was what I found most helpful. 

A great way to message is be answering a question, then giving a little bit of information, with a followup question. 

For an example (words that are underlined can be replaced with your own): “My weekend was great. I went apple picking at a place upstate. I picked a lot of Fuji apples, my favorite. Have you ever gone apple picking?” 

My pet peeve with online conversations are when a person doesn’t follow up with a question. It gives off the impression that the interest isn’t there.

Do not spend weeks going back an forth chatting over messages. Ask questions that will help you give you a sense for who he/ she is as a person so you can lead to meeting up.

Ladies, remember it is okay to be the first one to ask a guy out! We don’t have time to wait and if he doesn’t seem too interested in actually meeting up, it may be time to unmatch.

A Good First...Outfit

Going on a first date can be nerve wrecking and so can planning on what to wear! This is one area I know quite a bit about and I have lots of tips for you. 

Date night outfit formulas and where to wear them. My number one rule for a date night outfit is pick out your favorite asset (whether it’s your eyes, waist, butt, collarbone, or hair), then pick something that will flatter your favorite feature. . 

Option 1: Ideal for dinner, theater, something a bit more fancy and upscale. 

Your favorite cocktail dress with a leather jacket. 

Option 2: Ideal for a drinks, movies, an event 

Your favorite pair of jeans, a blouse, pumps or slight heel. 

Option 3: Ideal for coffee or something casual 

Sweater over a skirt or dress, sneakers or boots, bomber jacket.

Shop the black slip dress I am wearing HERE

A Good first…..Date

You’re now at the stage where you are about to go on a date. Congrats! I know it probably was exhausting getting here. There are three things I want you to remember when going on a first date. These are VERY important!

3. Be yourself! You want this person to get to know you because you are FABULOUS and anyone should be lucky to get to know you. Don’t ever talk yourself down or let anyone think you were not good enough if the date doesn’t go well. 

2. Remember that the other person is just as vulnerable as you are. So be kind and treat them how you want to be treated. Never ghost, no matter how many times you may have been ghosted. 

1.This one is important and is the key to being able to truly “date”. Have FUN!!! It’s not a race, not a binding contract, or an interview. It should be light and fun without pressure. If you have fun on the first date, a second one is probably right around the corner.

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity 

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

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Tea Time with Kusmi Tea

One thing that cultures from all over the world have in common is tea. It can symbolize so much, a blessing, healing, a bond, and a celebration.

Kusmi tea has a huge collection of teas but their new release, Tropical White Tea,  is incredible and possibly my favorite! It is a white tea with a light blend of mango passion fruit. The flavor is a calm, soothing, and not overpowering.

There are several ways to drink this Kusmi Tea, making it another reason why I like it so much. I’m showing you three different ways today!

MORNING TEA:

Start off your morning with a warm cup of Kusmi Tea. I warm up my water and slip a tea bag in there. It’s a great flavor to start the day off with. You can pair it with eggs and toast or a healthy bowl. The light tea compliments everything.

COOL ICED TEA FOR LUNCH

During lunch, I like to cool off with a nice soothing drink. An iced Kusmi tropical white tea is the perfect combination to go with a salad or sandwich. Another reason I like having this drink during lunch is to help me get over my lunch food coma. The tea gives me a little boost of caffeine to keep me going through the rest of the day.

In the morning, I drop a tea bag in hot water and let it soak for a few hours in the refrigerator. In 2-3 hours, the tea is perfectly cool and refreshing!

COCKTAIL DRINK USING KUSMI TEA

Have you ever used tea in your cocktail drink? Well, neither had I! Then I learned that Kusmi teas could be a great flavor to infuse into alcohol! I created a great mango margarita on the rocks using the Kusmi tropical white tea! Give it a try and let me know what you think.

This is the recipe below:

Ingredients:

1.5 oz tequila of choice

0.5 oz of Grand Marnier

6 oz of Kusmi tropical white tea (cooled)

0.5 oz of lemon juice

Directions:

Mix all of the ingredients and shake well. Pour into a glass and add ice. Cut a few slices of fresh mangos and throw in your glass. You can add salt to the rim if you like as well. Take a sip and enjoy!

Some of the reasons I love Kusmi tea are that the teas are 100% natural, there are over 100 different types to choose from, they are subtle (not overpowering like others), and their packaging is beautiful. They are great to gift for anyone and any occasion too!

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

The Ultimate Customized Cards

It’s that time again, Spring is here, birds are starting to chirp, and the flowers are beginning to bloom. The signs of spring also means finals are approaching and so is graduation. The planning takes time but the invites shouldn’t be one of the things you are stressed about. Basic Invite carries a huge array of beautiful options at amazing prices!

What makes Basic Invite different than others?

Almost Unlimited Colors -

Basic Invite allows customers almost unlimited color options with instant previews online. You first select a design then you can change the color of each element on the card to over 180 different color options. I loved being able to customize my design and see a preview so quickly. Basic Invite allows you to achieve exactly what you want down to the littlest detail. Other vendors don’t have a color range as wide as theirs. Not only is Basic Invite a luxury experience, you can still get affordable graduation invitations exactly how you want them.

Image provided by Basic Invite

Image provided by Basic Invite

Custom Samples -

Have you ever create a beautiful card or invite but did not want to commit to buying 100+ without seeing it first? Or worse, bought cards to find out they look awful in real life?

Basic Invite allows customers the ability to order a printed sample of their actual invitation so they can see exactly how it will print as well as the paper quality before they ever have to place their final order. I LOVE this feature because the wonderful thing about real life cards are the feeling of them. You can change details from color to the paper quality after you receive your sample. You can host a surprise graduation party invitations without the surprise of what you invitation will look like!

Right now Basic Invite is offering 15% off with coupon code: 15FF51

Over 40 Different Colors of Envelopes -

Basic Invite seals the deal beautifully with their envelopes, making the invitations feel extra special. Customers can choose from over 40 different colors when it comes to their envelopes. You’ll have everyone attend your graduation party with these college graduation party invitations options!

Image provided by Basic Invite

Image provided by Basic Invite

Address Capturing Service -

Do you ever get overwhelmed when collecting addresses? Well, Basic Invite offers an address capturing service that allows customers to simply share a link on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other form of social media to request their friends and family’s addresses. These addresses are securely stored in your account without stressing! During the design process, you can easily select the address. So cool right? Basic Invite also offers recipient address printing at no cost on all card orders!!

Foil -

I’m all about being extra! Foil cards are available in gold, silver, and rose gold. Customers can choose flat or raised foil on all of Basic Invite’s foil designs. The options are so great!

 I recently have been on a kick to work on my branding, making it more “me”. Over the last few years, I have grown personally so I wanted my new business cards to reflect that. Basic Invite was so helpful in this journey because the site is so seamless to use! I also found that the prices were very affordable, especially for the quality! I created my own design and inserted into their blank template. It took no more than 5 minutes total to checkout and the cards were at my doorstep in less than a week! I am beyond happy with my new business cards and can’t wait to create future invitations and cards!

Right now Basic Invite is offering 15% off with coupon code: 15FF51

 Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity

*This post was sponsored by Basic Invite, however opinions are my own.*

26 A Year of Growth, Heartbreak, & Love

This time last year, I had a job I hated, was head over heels in love, and didn’t know what I wanted to do next in my life. Today, I am a year older, possibly a little wiser, have a new job that I don’t hate, single, and motivated to find what is next for me in this thing called life.

Growth

A year ago there were a lot of changes going on in my career. I had a job that I hated! I didn’t hate the work I did, I actually enjoy designing, but I felt unappreciated and taken advantage of everyday. Day in and day out, that began to take a toll out in me. I left work feeling unhappy and angry. Every morning I woke feeling so unmotivated and dreaded walking into those glass doors. At the same time, I was comfortable and could do my job in my sleep. It was easy and not to brag, but I was damn good at it too. Trying to find a new job just seemed like more work and truthfully I was too lazy to put in the effort. But earlier this year, something clicked and I was like “I NEED to get the hell out of here”. It was made clear that I wasn’t taken seriously and I never would no matter how hard I worked. I learned a huge lesson- when a new role opens up at work and additional tasks are assigned to you, right then and there, discuss your future with the company and discuss compensation. I failed to do that because I assumed it was coming. Remember, you all deserve the world and to feel appreciated! Ask yourself, would you treat you the way your employer is? If the answer is no, then you need to find somewhere/ someone who will. 

I decided to finally do something and began interviewing again. I got my portfolio together and decided that I was worth it. I was my motivation for a better future. It wasn’t easy but boy was I motivated to do this for myself. Today, I have a job where I am more appreciated and don’t dread walking into every morning. Every job has its moments but I am so much happier. As far as my future goes, I am not sure where I will go or what I will do next but I am excited to find out.

How do you move on after you realize that person didn’t feel the same way?

The hardest part was losing a best friend

Heartbreak

Last year, I was in love with someone who I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. How do you move on after you realize that person didn’t feel the same way? A breakup is never an easy thing to get over but I truly believe every heartbreak makes you a stronger person. A heart is such precious cargo that people take for advantage.

Let’s back up here for a second. I met my ex about two years ago and things were perfect for a long time...until they weren’t. The relationship started going downhill earlier this year. I should’ve seen the signs when I found out he applied for a job in another state behind my back. And I should’ve really ended it when he took the job without thinking about our future. But a part of me wasn’t ready to let go. I’m human and wasn’t ready to admit the relationship was over. I loved so hard that I thought we could make long distance work. I honestly think I could have, but the hard part is that both parties have to want it bad enough to make it work. I quickly learned that I was the only one who wanted a future for us. That was a really harsh fact to learn (even though I think I knew deep down inside the whole time).

I think the hardest part was losing my best friend or who I thought was my best friend. In the beginning it was difficult not having him there to talk to all day long, especially things that were special between just us two. I felt like I was lying to the world every time I smiled. It was a rough time. But the truth is, I feel less lonely now than I did when I was in a relationship. I feel free and more myself than when I was in a relationship. It doesn’t quite make sense but sometimes it feels lonelier when you are with someone who isn’t mentally or emotionally there in the relationship.

I learned a lot from my ex. I learned that I do want to have a family and build a life with someone. That was something I didn’t really see for myself because I have always been an independent woman. Whether that happens for me or not, I still have hope that there is a soulmate for everyone.

For anyone going through a breakup- remember you will get through it and love again. Time heals all wounds and you have the power to find yourself after a heartbreak. If you are going through a breakup, here is a playlist I created that really helped me.

Love

I am so grateful for all the wonderful people who are still in my life today. I have family all over the world who are there no matter what! I have friends who I feel are my sisters that help me get through the biggest emotional hurdles. Last but not least, I have my blog and all my readers who motivate me everyday to share my story. My heart is so full of love because of all of you. I’m happy to influence even one person because you never know how one action can change another person’s world. I am so blessed to see another year and I can’t wait to share more with you this year. Thank you from the bottom of my gushy heart to each one of you!!

Thank you for reading!!

XOXO,

Krity

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

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New York City Pop Ups

If you have been following me for some time now, you know I love going to pop up museums. They have been popping up all over NYC over the last few months and I have to admit, they are hard to keep track of. To make it easy for you, I’ve lined all of them up for you along with a map of where they are located in the city.

Nightmare Machine

Location: 93 N 9th St, Brooklyn, NY 11249

Schedule: October 3rd, 2018- October 31st, 2018

What: The Nightmare Machine is making all your nightmares come true. Get ready to see UFOs, cockroaches, a graveyard, and jump into hell.

What to Wear: Your best costume!

Cost: $38. Purchase Tickets HERE

The Color Factory

Location: 251 Spring St, New York, NY 10013

Schedule: July 17th, 2018- October 14th, 2018

Monday: 10am-11pm

Tuesday: 10am-11pm

Wednesday: closed

Thursday: 10am-11pm

Friday: 10am-11pm

Saturday: 10am-11pm

Sunday: 10am-11pm

What: Color Factory is a pop up that evokes feelings from color. Each room gives you a totally new sensation and if completely different from each other. Get ready for sweet treats, a dance party, a questions maze, blind drawing, and the ultimate ball pit! Artists, creatives, designers have teamed up with Color Factory to tell their unique color stories and engage all of your senses in unexpected ways. This has probably been one of my favorite pop ups yet because each room has a different activity! It’s a pretty colorful playground for adults!

What to Wear: I recommend wear color because after all, this is a pop up all about color! Go all out and wear the rainbow!

Cost: $38. Kids under two are free. Purchase tickets HERE

Rosé  Mansion

Location: 445 5th Ave, New York, NY 10016

Schedule: July 12, 2018 - October 21, 2018. See availability when purchasing tickets. Closed on Tuesdays

What: Rosé Mansion is a pop up all about your favorite summer drink- Rosé. Each room teaches you about how rosé is made in a interesting way. You get to sample different types of rosé from all around the world too! Get ready to swing on crystal chandeliers, sit on a huge thrown, and create your own Rosé!!

What to Wear: I recommend wearing pink! Whether you are a lady or a gentlemen, pink is the best option for this pop up because all the rooms are curated to look pretty next to pink (the color of rosé).

Cost: General admission $45; HAPPY HOUR - $35; $10 off Monday - Friday before 4:30pm. Purchase tickets HERE

Candytopia

Location: 145 W 32nd Street New York, NY 10001

Schedule: Open till November 15th, 2018. Check online for schedule and availability.

What: Are you a fan of candy? If so, this pop up is the one for you! Get ready to be absolutely blown away by what you can create with candy. I was shocked by what the artists did. Think Van Gogh and Andy Warhol. Thousands of hours were spent to create this pop up and it is worth it! If you have kids, they will love this pop up. I felt like the pop up was more curated for kids but adults who have an inner child in them still will love it too. Get ready for the biggest sugar high of your life because they hand out tons of candy along the way.

What to Wear: This pop up is so colorful and has the craziest backdrops that you might want to opt out for a simple outfit. Stick to head to toe of a single color like black and white.

Cost: Adults: $34 Kids ages; 4-12yrs: $26. Purchase tickets HERE

Room For Tea

Location: 371 Broadway, New York, NY 10013

Schedule: Aug 28 - Sep 22. 2018

What: 5 rooms + 14 highlights all inspired by bubble tea! If you love bubble tea, then this pop up is a must!! You get to experience rooms that relate back to bubble tea and also experience a tea ceremony! Plus, at the end of the pop up you get a full sized bubble tea. The tea was really yummy and perfect for a hot day! I accidentally got the tea in the beginning so make sure not to do that because I had to chug my tea down haha

What to Wear: For Room for Tea, all the rooms are so different from each other that I recommend wearing something very neutral. Even a classic look like jeans and a white T-shirt will work well in each room.

Cost: $23 general admission ; $33 for additional 40 minute tea ceremony; kids under 4 yrs old are free. Purchase tickets HERE

Madhatter Bus

Location: 173 Morgan Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11206

Schedule: Open till October 21st, 2018; Generally open 6-10pm

What: A two hour experience down the rabbit hole. Take a trip out to Bushwick if you want to totally escape from New York and into a fairy tale book, but with a lot of alcohol and laughter incorporated. This is not your G-rated version of Alice in Wonderland. My two hours spent on this double decker bus was absolutely magical! We created potions, ate mini cucumber sandwiches, played drinking games, and even made a new song with the help of the incredibly talented hosts. I also made a few knew friends along the way. This was by far one of the funnest experiences I have been to in New York and highly recommend checking it out before it closes!!

What to Wear: Since this is an Alice in Wonderland inspired experience, dress up like your favorite characters from the book.

Cost: $50 includes cocktails. Purchase tickets HERE

Winky Lux

Location: 430 W Broadway, New York, NY 10012

Schedule: Calendar is open till the end of November 2018

What: A pop up inside the Winky Lux store. The makeup brand has created six different rooms that relate back to some of their most popular makeup products. you will get to take photos on some of the prettiest painted rooms and get to know more about the makeup brand. Test out all the products because they have a lot to choose from. My favorite room was the mini dollhouse with the tea party set up!

What to Wear: For this pop up I recommend wearing a color or set of colors in the pink or purple family. The rooms are all so different (some rooms are more vibrant while others are more pastel) but you’ll compliment each room in pinks or purples. Plus, make sure to pick out one of your favorite Winky Lux products at the end of your visit. I’m loving my new matcha lip balm!

Cost: $10 but the ticket credited for a purchase at the store. Purchase Tickets HERE

Past Pop Ups

29 Rooms:

Location: Brooklyn

Schedule: Closed. Returns in September 2019

What: This pop up only comes around once a year to New York and it’s usually during the second and third week of September. So keep your eyes peeled for next years pop up. Make sure to grab your tickets early because they sell out pretty quick. 29 rooms is a pop up Refinery 29 created where there are 29 rooms with different messages. Whether it’s political, all about female power, beauty, music, art, health- they cover all the topics! You’ll feel a different emotion in each room and you’ll leave the experience learning something new. 

What to Wear: I recommend wearing a couple or colors from the primary group here. Yes, let’s go back to elementary school here for a minute. Primary colors consist of blue, red, and yellow. Each room is so different from each other but the standard colors are incorporated in each room so you can’t go wrong!

Cost: $30-40

The Pint Shop

The Pint Shop

Happy Go Lucky:

Dream Machine:

XOXO,

Krity

Until next the next pop up….

New York Fashion Week Fall 2018

Twice a year, New York City hosts fashion week displaying the newest trends, fabrics, colors, setting the mood for the next season. The streets are filled with men and women dressed up showcasing some of their best street style. Photographers flock the scene to capture the best angles. It is a fun (and tiring) time of year but there is nothing else like it. I'm sharing looks from some of the shows I attended and what I feel like will be trending this Fall. I'm also sharing my NYFW looks with you and where to shop them. 

Gilt x Chanel Iman debut of BLAKUS: 

Gilt.com and supermodel Chanel Iman celebrated the US debut of BLAKUS, a Parisian accessories brand. The launch event displayed a special presentation of beautifully handcrafted small and large backpacks, crossbody bags, and a belt bag style. Each piece had amazing embellishment, using intricate beading alongside delicate studs and dramatic fringe to create unique handbags that are true works of art. My personal favorite is the belt bag with leather fringe! It is cute and incredibly easy to wear. The collection ranges in price from $710 to $2,540, and the collection officially is sold exclusively on Gilt.com.

Epson Digital Couture:

Epson hosted its fourth annual Epson "Digital Couture" Fashion event this NYFW. Thirteen selected designers from the Americas showcased their collections created using Epson's direct-to-garment and digital dye-sublimation printing around the theme "Cosmopolitan Couture with Impossible Colors: How Does Your Culture Dress-up?"

The new trend, digital dye-sublimation and direct-to-garment technologies, are allowing designers to alter textile designs, make color selections with the click of a mouse, and hone in on the fine details of their creations. As a designer myself, not having to think about the technical issues of printing give a big relief to truly be able to focus on the design itself. That is exactly what the designers did at this presentation! Each print had a story- some were bright and happy, others were mysterious and dark, others were quirky and fun. The prints truly showed the personalities of each designer and their brand. 

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Day 1: February 8, 2018

Manhattan Knights Presentation: 

Designer Samuel Murkofsky showcased a casual wardrobe for the millennial culture this NYFW. The brand, Manhattanknights derives from and is inspired by a deep love for New York, its culture, its people and its humor.  ManhattanKnights' current collection was inspired by the designers times spent in New York City at the turn of the millennium.  It referenced popular styles and statements of the late 90's period but re-invented for the "now" generation. The collection looked like the current day uniform for young profeesionals. My personal favorite was the pink matching set!

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Images by Dan Lecca

Pamella Rolland:

Pamella Rolland always displays the most beautiful collection during NYFW. The show never disappoints! Rolland displayed another feminine, powerful, whimsical collection. The collection was filled with rich metallic brocades, gorgeous shiny beads, fringe, feathers, delicate laceses, and flowy chiffons. I loved how gowns floated down the runway. The movement in the fabrics created great drama. The beaded fringe dresses shined brilliantly and I could not keep my eyes off the the gorgeous details. The ostrich feathers floating made me feel like I was on another planet. This was one of my favorite collections during New York Fashion Week! 

Images from Ashley Gallerani

Outfit:

I wore a white graphic t-shirt, wool blazer, beaded tier skirt, finishing the look off with lace pumps with bow. For accessories I wore a silver reflective pair of sunglasses and crystal chandelier earrings. Shop the look below.

Day 3: February 10, 2018

Dan Liu:

Dan Liu presented a romantic Parisian inspired collection this NYFW. The mood was set my a mysterious James Bond in Paris soundtrack. Models wore a bold red lip with sunglasses. Beautiful shades of pink came down the runway. Pink will definetly be a big color this upcoming spring and fall. My favorite look was the off the shoulder mikado fit and flare party dress with the big bow in the back. 

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Maybelline Makeup Master Class Event:

I attended the first ever Maybelline Master Class held by my favorite beauty gurus Desi Perkins and Katy Degroot! This event was a lot of fun! They had a huge area where guests could get touch ups with Maybelline products. The master class was really cool because Desi and Katy shared some of their best makeup tips with the audience and we saw exactly how they create a beauty look.

Jx4 Cuso Runway:

Emerging designer duo Jaxon Yang and Creative Director Nina Cuso presented their inaugural entry into the New York Fashion Week calendar with a runway show for their label, JXY n' Cuso. The collection was inspired by nightmares and a dimension that is unidentified. The colors used within this collection were carefully selected and are well known vessels and representatives of power, Crimson red for blood, Navy Blue for the Ocean, Porcelain White for light, and Pitch black for darkness. My personal favorite was the red leather dress. It was such a powerful look!

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Color by Nandi Presentation:

Nandi Madida is a South African media personality, fashion designer, musician, and actress who has been captivating audiences since the age of eight.  Colour. In its second year, the line has expanded and become loved by several of Nandi’s fans as well as customers worldwide. The collection displayed a bold color palette of red, rust, crimson, and black based print. My favorite was the red strapless tuxedo gown.

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Rachel Pollak Runway: 

From Overland Park, Kansas, Rachel is the womenswear designer for Rachel Pollak Designs, who loves designing classic and modern fashion. The designs appeal to a woman who is strong, sophisticated, and feminine, who loves mixing colors, patterns and textures to create a wearable statement. I loved the black jumpsuit with a pop of pink!

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Outfit:

For a super busy day at NYFW, I wore a power suit. I wore a Red blazer, red pants, pink faux fur, and pink sock boots. For accessories I wore a Daniel Wellington watch, pink crystal sunglasses, red lip earrings, and a red bag. You know I love a pink and red combination! 

Day 4: February 11, 2018

Vivi Zubedi Runway:

Zubedi's talent for combining textures, patterns, and embellishments was apparent. The designer mixed traditionally Muslim silhouettes like hijabs and abayas with sportswear elements like printed sneakers and gold embellished baseball caps.  Written across the caps and select velvet jumpers in the collection was "Banua Borneo"-- a region of Indonesia that Vivi Zubedi wishes to bring attention to. 

Vivi Zubedi's collection utilized the weavers' beautiful original fabrics from South Kalimantan. The difficult techniques used in the process of making these fabrics is what makes them so special. The human resources who created the traditional fabrics are women ranging from teenagers, to adults and elders. Vivi believes these women should be highly praised as they conserve Kalimantan’s traditions. Vivi dreamt to improve the economy of these entrepreneurs by introducing Kalimantan’s traditional fabric to the international fashion industry at NYFW.  

A rich, yet earthy color palette of velvet and the subtly printed artisan materials was embellished with flashy gold chains, crystals, and pearls. Wrapped coats in black and white polka dot, navy velvet, and ikat printed fabrics were decked out with zippers, beads, girly bows, oversized belts and Victorian collars stole the show along with Zubedi's stylish sneakers and mini handbags.  

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Angela Mitchell Presentation:

Emerging designer sisters Krystal and Marilyn Lavoie presented their Angela Mitchell FW18 collection with a presentation during New York Fashion Week. For Fall/Winter 2018, the designers have drawn inspiration from their perilous journey through Morrocco's infamous Tizi n'Tichka road, which is considered one of the most beautiful and dangerous in Morocco. Primary colors and semi-precious jewels reminiscent of Moroccan landscapes were clearly visible in every shoe design. The women's collection offers seven contemporary and classic styles. Among the many intricately-detailed shoes, the 'Tichka' boot embellished with tribal patterns were my favorite pair! Swarovski crystal appliqués in jet, silver night, and hematite sparkle against leathers mastered by Italian artisans. 

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Outfit:

On a rainy NYFW day I wore a Green stripe dress, cheetah fur coat, patent leather boot, white mod sunglasses, and floral printed bag.

Day 7: February 14, 2018

Leanne Marshall Runway: 

Leanne Marshall New York Fashion Week runway show brought romantic elegance with a hint of edge to Spring Studios. The collection started off displaying chunky knitwear pieces, subtly striped separates, and oversized jackets. The the mood slowly changed with a vibrant runway consisting of chartreuse, charcoal, midnight navy, dusty rose, metallic bronze, citron, and cyan. The unexpected color combinations flowed gorgeously from one capsule to the next with her signature silk chiffon silhouettes, wool shift dresses, and organic cotton outerwear. I love the details of wavy, scalloped cutouts that added a touch of drama. Each piece in the collection was crafted sustainably, whether from leftover, hand-dyed bridal materials or organically sourced cottons. 

The show also featured a bevy of beautiful faces in all shapes, sizes, and colors. Forty models strutted the runway, many of whom were plus sized and real sized, echoing the designer's desire to dress all women. Flaunting the beauty of every body, Leanne chose to steer away from the norm and feature fitted, body-hugging silhouettes.   

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XOXO,

Krity

Until next New York Fashion Week...

Secret Summer

Ready to try exotic cocktails? Are you looking to eat delicious food while still being quite healthy? Want to be swept away to a magical place? In the mood to see amazing dance performances? Well, Secret Summer in New York has all of the above and then some. Secret Summer is the only event that consists of all organic farm-to-bar cocktails! On Sunday August 6, 2017 from 4-10pm, Secret Summer is happening again at The Foundry in Long Island City! 

This year there are several signature drinks. All of them were incredibly unique and delicious. My personal favorite was 'Talk to me, Goose'- rum, black birch, cherry, and mint. Yum!

Secret Summer takes place at The Foundry. The minute I opened the doors, I felt like I had entered a magical kingdom, far away from NYC. This place is filled with floor to ceiling greenery, flowers, and a view of the Queensboro bridge. The setting is perfect to try specialty cocktails, eat, and dance the night away!

Get tickets for a magical day HERE! Use code "HushHush" for 30% off!!

XOXO!

New York Fashion Week Recap Part 2

NYFW continued busy but still very fun! I met so many great people this week. I also got a chance to meet some of my favorite bloggers that I followed on Instagram. The second half of fashion week was more calm and I got to enjoy the shows with my friends (which for me is the best part of fashion week). We discuss what we liked, what trends we can't wait to try, and just catching up. The weather in NYC also cooled down which was amazing for all of us fashionistas.

NYFW Day 4.....I think....this is when it all became a blur...

Rosenthal Tee SS17 Runway 

I started off Day 4 with an evening show at Pier 59. I was excited to see this show because it was another new designer that I was not familiar with. Rosenthal Tee's collection was a beautiful surprise! I loved the mix between structured pieces like jackets and corsets mixed with soft skirts. Her attention to detail is really unique. I really loved the cutouts in the shoulders and the feather embellishment. 

Photos from Rosenthal Tee website

Christina Ruales SS17 Presentation

Later on the same night, my friends and I, headed over to the Chelsea Market (super cute place in NYC) to the Inglot Studios for the Christina Ruales SS17 Presentation. The setting of the presentation was really unique. Instead of a traditional runway, there was an empty space in the center- similar to a stage setting. I did't know what to expect, but was really excited to find out. 

The show began by one model walking to center stage. Several other models came out shortly after. The music changed and they began dancing. Models were also ballerinas who danced beautifully in the SS17 collection.

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Irina Vitjaz SS17 Runway Show

This was a great show to start the morning off! I loved every single piece that came down the runway! Vitjaz used the most beautiful color palette from pastel greens, lavenders, to bright pinks, and rich blues. The silhouettes were very feminine- fitted mermaid gowns, drapy blouses, and voluminous skirts. The materials were soft and moved so graciously down the runway. I loved the hair & makeup to the music. The show truly took you away to a romantic place and I was definitely wishing I was wearing one of the gowns by the end of the show!

Blogger and the Brand Event 

The Blogger and Brand  held by Ombre Digital  was so much fun! It was held in the Lower East Side (love that NYC neighborhood). When you walked in, the whole staircase was lit up in pink!! I freaked out in the inside because I was in complete love!

At the event, I got a chance to meet a ton of new fashion and lifestyle bloggers as well as many interesting new brands. There was also a great panel Q&A with successful bloggers and people in the fashion/ marketing agency that spoke about their experiences in blogging and working with brands. It was really insightful to see both the brand and the bloggers point of view! If you are a new blogger, definitely check out Ombre Digital. 

Later that week

Nolcha Fashion Show

There were three amazing new designers who displayed their collection at the Nolcha shows. Syu Syu Han, Nikistavia, and Cashmere Song showed great SS17 collections.  

Syu Syu Han was tough and bold. I loved the corsets and leather pieces. It gave the soft skirts an edge.  

Cashmere Song made me feel like I was wearing cashmere during the show. The looks we're soft and romantic. I also loved how the whole collection was all ivory. 

Photography by Ashley Gallerani

xoxo!

Till next NYFW...